Wednesday, August 29, 2012

Have movie-makers ended up distorting

Image is to the mind what perception is to the soul. Have movie-makers ended up distorting both in an attempt to deliver ‘happy’ stories?

If one reads the research papers by anthropologists like Desmond Morris and by authors like Barbara & Allan Pease, one can draw how these movies are an additional burden for the already-very-different-species called men and women! According to their researches, men and women have evolved differently. “Nest-defenders, to safeguard their family’s survival, needed to be able to pick-up small changes in the behaviour of their offspring that could signal pain, hunger, injury, aggression or depression. Males, being lunch-chasers, were never around the cave long enough to learn to read non-verbal signals or the ways of interpersonal communication,” as quoted in one of Allan and Barbara Pease’s books, Why Men Don’t Listen & Women can’t Read Maps.

While the above may be true, it’s difficult to ignore in the film the tender moments, the glances and words, and even more difficult to deny oneself the possibility of a life so complete. After all, dreaming is the first step towards fulfilling a dream! But living and working towards just one dream (of love) isn’t the brightest idea either!